So why is it so hard for us to let go or accept something, even when we know that it is the best thing for us to do in a particular context.
To understand this, I think we need to dig a little bit deeper.
- Is it because we believe that "letting go" is giving up, losing, or failing, and if we fail, then we are not good enough?
- Is it because "letting go of someone's memory" means that we do not care about them anymore?
- Is it because "letting go" means that we are irresponsible, and if we are responsible, then we should continue to keep trying?